God's Will and the World
Rev. Sun Myung Moon
The Ideal Spouse
February 4, 1969
Tokyo, Japan
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search for the ideal spouse has been a problem throughout history, Not only
in today's world, but also in future history, it is and will be important. To
begin with, let's think of what the absolute standard of an ideal spouse is.
Is it natural for a beautiful woman to be linked with a handsome man?
Actually, it isn't. According to the Principle, marriage should be a vital
part of the process of restoration. Since the true spouse, or husband and
wife relationship that God intended, was lost, the world has become such a
troublesome one. How can we restore it?
A man would welcome having a woman with whom he could be happy. Likewise,
a woman would like to have a man with whom she could rejoice. In addition,
their relationship should be one in which God and all things could find
happiness. All the environment, all the existing things, would become excited
to see such a couple, and would naturally respond to them, Birds would
sing to the couple and butterflies would fly joyfully around them. In this
phenomenal world, God rejoices, man rejoices, and all things rejoice —
down to the smallest insects. If our ancestry had started from this position,
we would have had an ideal world.
A girl has an image of a boy whom God loves, and a boy has the image of a
girl who is also beloved of God. When they praise or uplift each other. God
also rejoices and all things rejoice. The standard of joyfulness depends
upon whether they can embrace each other in heart and have the kind of value
in which heaven and each together can rejoice. A man and woman who embrace
each other are themselves the place where the universe can unite, and are
God's ideal image. This was God's hope for the original world of creation.
However, because of the fall, the first man and woman cut their relationship
with God and with all things. They came to have a self- centered attitude
about love, to embrace each other and have a relationship as they wished
without the blessing of God. Anyone who thinks this way, even today, is
actually trapped in Satan's territory and is controlled by the power of
Satan. You must understand this.
This problem is especially noticeable in Japan, which has now become
more Westernized. There are many young people among the members here, so
you must understand the reality of restoration through life in our group,
where we live as brothers and sisters. You must hang on firmly to your purity.
The reason why God's will was not accomplished was because of the fall
between man and woman, Therefore, a man by himself cannot correct or restore
history to follow God's will. A man and a woman must cooperate and work
together for God's will, and from that point we can deal with social and
national problems as an issue of restoration. Without this cooperation, we
cannot restore either the nation world or cosmos, This is our conclusion. Only
a man and woman who take responsibility for true cooperation and accomplish it
faithfully can form a relationship with each other through God's love. Until
now, this has only been a hope in God's mind.
The fall took place in the intermediate stage of growth. The beginning of
the fallen world is the result of Adam and Eve embracing each other under
the control of the archangel's love. The history of the world, which has
been passing through a long process of restoration, has become the history
of agony. We must restore it.
The absolute standard of love
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the owner of love? Who is the host of love? Speaking from a man's position,
there is no love without a woman. And a woman would say love isn't possible
without a man. But this is a reciprocal relationship that cannot by itself be
an absolute standard of love. Without God a reciprocal relationship cannot
be ideal.
The owner of love, the host of love who is standing in the absolute
position, is God. Anyone who steals this Godly love without following God's
will is a thief. Such a person is a criminal like those who violated the
Garden of Eden. You must understand this.
The human race, which has inherited the blood lineage of ancestors who
fell, has entered into the period when it must reap the fruits of the seeds
that it once sowed. Look at the way young people have come to be promiscuous
without hesitation. In Japan, as well, there are many young people who behave
this way; some of them are not even 20 years old, This symbolizes that the
time of autumn is coming, when we have to harvest on the world level the
seeds that were sown, When this time comes, God will be declared non-existent
unless there emerges someone who can establish a new man-woman relationship,
an ideal reciprocal relationship, It is an incredible gospel for the world
that someone who can establish the foundation for ideal spouses has appeared
at one corner of the earth and has become a sensation. This is the good news
over which God rejoices.
You women of the Unification Church should not let just some man off the
street grab your heart, which you have been cultivating so carefully. Don't
be misled. Truly speaking, if your faith has deepened, and if you have had
some spiritual experiences, you cannot act carelessly. Love comes from God,
and to build unprincipled relationships without God's approval is satanic. To
push God aside and to love each other — this is the satanic world.
If there are some who have been longing for each other, they must repent
from the time they heard this speech, Our ancestors sinned and brought
terrible consequences upon the world. Therefore, if you marry someone of
your own choice, apart from God, you will, far from bring regarded as good
ancestors later on, bring about further damage. It is never permissible
to love each other in such a situation, You must put everything into God's
hands. If you enter a marriage, you must be able to make love with God at the
center and seeing His smiling face, Such a relationship is truly the joy of
God. Originally, the act of love would not have been a shameful thing at ail,
but the most precious and sacred experience. But man violated God's Principle,
and history has viewed this relationship as an evil and sinful act that we
should be ashamed of.
We must welcome True Parents on the earth in order to create a new
history and become new ancestors; the original standard must start from True
Parents. So the young people of the Unification Church, both in Japan and
in the United States, are longing to see me. Are you the same?
I don't feel so good. Some of you new members have been doing many
things, haven't you? You don't care whether you are writing love letters
or dating. And you wink without any hesitation, just as if you were buying a
pencil or something on the street. Should such a person receive the Blessing? I
don't like that. According to the original standard of the Blessing, there
could be no such terrible circumstances at all. Viewed from the Principle,
you have no qualifications to be blessed. Therefore, as the descendants of
fallen man, you must restore the original standard.
Because of the fall, God lost His children, His son and daughter who had
received God's abundant love. Also, the relationship between man and woman
(the husband and wife relationship centered upon God) was lost, and from the
children's point of view, they lost the chance to experience having True
Parents. By one action of the fall, three relationships were destroyed,
Therefore, the point is how to indemnify these three types of heart at one
time according to the principle of restoration through indemnity, and how to
set a standard that God can accept. First of all, we must restore the standard
that we love God as His true son and true daughter. Then at a certain age,
after having passed through this process, we can become husband and wife
centered upon God's love. Furthermore, we must have children of pure goodness,
thus fulfilling the four position foundation that brings joy to God,
Consciousness as God's child
hen you
first join the Unification movement and begin a life of faith, the first point
is to restore the consciousness that you are truly the son or daughter of
God, as well as restoring the children's position centered upon God's love,
Unless you feel in your heart that you are loved by God, and unless you re
so proud of these great words of God as to be eager to declare so throughout
the universe, you cannot stand tall as God's son or daughter, You must have
an absolute confidence that comes by trusting completely in God's authority.
Do you have such a standard that you can charge forward to Satan's base
with full confidence and authority as a heavenly son despite many obstacles? Do
you have this standard or not? You must pass through the process by which you
can subjugate Satan, who violated Adam and Eve. Otherwise, you cannot set
the standard to be blessed. What's more, you cannot become heavenly children
unless you have such a standard as to seek after Satan on the world level,
or at least you are able to take responsibility on the national level for
three countries. If we think about that point, it's not an easy task.
Fortunately, the ideal couple that mankind has sought has been
established. God and all creation are now rejoicing over the advent of the
True Parents of eternal value. However, countless people were sacrificed
throughout the ages to lay the foundation for them to come. How precious
is their value! When you become husband and wife, a wife must regard her
husband as an embodiment of God. In this case, the wife would stand in the
position of her husband's daughter. The husband should then raise her up,
thus restoring the daughter's position, which God lost.
Through the fall, God lost three things. Therefore, the husband must
restore one of them, namely, the position of God's daughter. From the wife's
point of view, her husband is like her father. She must believe in him more
than she does her own father, Through him she should find much greater
value than she has ever experienced in her life. She cannot restore the
ideal reciprocal standard that Satan destroyed unless she restores such
a standard of heart. Secondly, a husband facing his wife must feel as if
he were his wife's son. He should have a bubbling heart toward his wife,
as if he were a child facing his own mother. And from his wife's side, she
should find within herself a mother's heart toward her husband, loving him
completely as if he were her own child,
Thirdly, you cannot set conditions for restoration unless you become
totally one as husband and wife, having such a heart that you absolutely need
each other day and night, and you cannot bear to spend even a day without
your spouse.
The fall began with a woman. How old was she? Sixteen. She was underage. A
woman forfeited the standard of parents whom God should trust. Strictly
speaking, therefore, following the principle of restoration, a person who
is supposed to become a true mother should not be older than 20. This is the
Principle. Because of this reason, I welcomed my wife as a young person and
loved her as if she were my daughter. From my side, my Holy Wedding had to
be held before I passed the age of 40.
Then what period was the first seven years? It was the period when
I raised Mother. I was supposed to educate Mother about heavenly family
tradition and law. I did not do this in a careless way, but prayed about it
so much every night before sleeping. Mother did not know it. In this way,
I restored three things substantially: the daughter who was lost as a result
of the fall, her reciprocal standards, and the standard of True Parents in
front of God. This is the path that everyone should go as a fallen person.
You may decide to set some reciprocal standard by yourself, but you alone
can never determine the heavenly, earthly and cosmic standard. The person who
is qualified to set the standard of heaven is the Lord of the Second Advent,
the Messiah. That standard is the very final point of liberation that all
people have longed for throughout history. Therefore, when the person with
that standard appears, those who are in touch with their original mind and
have a pure spirit will be naturally attracted to him without explanation
from the moment they meet him.
Three stages in the restoration of heart
et me repeat, unless we restore these three positions heartistically,
the standard of the Blessing is not achieved. Centering upon God there is
the heart of parents looking down to the children, the heart of children
looking up to their parents, and the reciprocal heart of husband and wife,
who are confident to initiate these three points of heart, To just expect
the Blessing itself violates God's Principle. Those of you who think you
have achieved the heavenly standard, please raise your hand. In Japan,
there is nobody qualified to be blessed.
In any situation, there is one thing to consider in your life of
faith-indemnity. That is your opportunity to make an offering for the sake
of your resurrection. Therefore, we must be grateful for any chance to make
conditions of indemnity.
How can we set indemnity conditions? You will not understand unless you
learn from me, If in the past Japan had had a person who wanted to understand
the meaning of indemnity conditions and had bought that understanding in
exchange for all of Japan, then he might already have unified the world. There
could be no greater business deal than that in the whole world, Whether
Japan will buy it now or not — this is the problem. We can see the same
story in the Bible, Even if you gain the entire world, but lose your life,
what good is it? You cannot buy your life back at any price. Therefore, we
seek the answer, because we desire life, Love affairs are not permitted in
our movement between men and women. Do you miss such an affair? [No!] Tell
the truth! Do you miss it? [No!] You understand this point without being
taught in detail because your original mind has been sharpened,
When you clearly understand these internal values, you feel tremendous
regret for certain actions in your past, such as writing love letters with
your own hands, because in doing so, your hands were moving according to
Satan's desire to entice someone further from God, However many times you
may cry, your tears will have no end. At the time, you never imagined the
consequences of what you were doing with your body. It was stained by the
dirty blood of Satan. In order to clean that out, you feel like cutting
yourself open to let that impurity drain away. However, you cannot let
yourself die in that way. Therefore, you need to make certain conditions
to cleanse it. Hands and bodies used by Satan should be thrown out, How can
you become recreated by God's love? Certainly, trying to maintain a dirty
relationship is out of the question. Have you acquired this kind of heart yet?
In a sense, Eve would have become the future wife of God. This is because
once Adam became one with God, and God's spirit dwelled within him, then
Adam would be the embodiment of God Himself. Therefore, for God, his wife
was violated by Satan. We have not subdued the one who hurt God. So God has
been persevering with a hope to restore His ideal of creation in the midst
of deep sorrow. When you think about that, you cannot just steal God's wife
for your own sake and have children who do not care about Heavenly Father
at all, But this is the reality of the fallen world today, and the current
relationship between Satan and God. Viewed from that perspective, Satan is
both our enemy and God's enemy. You are from the fallen world. Therefore, if
you decide to go the path of restoration, it's better to finish it quickly,
"whatever it takes, I want to reach the top." With such a burning desire
you must be determined to find your original self.
Seek after God's heart
hose who
have fasted for one week, raise your hand. Anyone who has never experienced
fasting cannot understand the feeling at three minutes to midnight on the
seventh day, even if somebody explains it to him by writing hundreds of
books. To write and explain the taste of honey is not the same as tasting it,
therefore, if a person wants to believe in the path of the cross, it's better
to so the path of the cross substantially, One who does not understand God's
heart must put himself in a position to discover it. One should persevere
through any hardship to seek after God's heart. The fact that we are the
descendants of fallen man, whose heart is separated from God's heart, is
intolerable to God. Furthermore, to create some theory centered upon man
or to speak about some self-centered reciprocal standard, etc., is out of
the question.
What we are taught in the Principle is the realm of the heart. Our standard
of heart is beyond that of our ancestors in the fallen world. Therefore,
if You commit the fall again after you understand it, your situation will
be more dreadful than that of Satan, who fell at the perfection level of
the growth stage. Even Satan will curse those who do so. Then how can they
find salvation? You must understand that is a fearful fate. Committing the
fall after understanding the Principle results in repeating fallen love in
the presence of True Parents and Heavenly Father.
The fall of our ancestors took place at a time when the new history under
True Parents and Heavenly Father had not begun yet. But to fall now when we
are beyond the limited understanding of past history is far more serious;
therefore, if you do so, you are worse than Satan. I'm sure this is the first
time you have understood this issue clearly, isn't it? Therefore, women,
especially women, must be very careful. Faithful women in the Unification
Church are standing in the position of Eve before the fall. The purer your
faith is, the more the men around you will come after you. These men want to
see you so badly they cannot sleep — such will be their yearning. In the
case of men, as well, if they have pure faith, then women in the secular world
become attracted to them. This is exactly the same situation as when Satan
came to have a burning desire for Eve, and when fallen Eve tried to tempt Adam.
When you experience these things, you come to substantially understand
that this Principle is the eternal truth. Otherwise, the Principle has no
value. You must overcome all temptations to the very end. Once you hear this
truth, you can understand what kind of standard you have. You may think,
"Now that Father has come, we can be blessed. Let's get ready. Because Father
is a person who can understand human situations very well, I'm sure he will
ignore my mistakes." You might think this way, but I am not obligated to.
The Bible says that a woman who has a baby is unfortunate. How do those
who have an inseparable relationship with their husband, children, or parents
get out of their situation? In order to free people from such confinement,
God allows the spread of democracy and liberalism, It is common practice
for people to divorce these days; children do not hesitate to oppose their
parents; neither do they oftentimes appreciate their parents' hard work. Of
course, God does not like to see these things happen, but if they allow for
people to more freely respond to the greater purpose of God's will without
restrictions, then these actions can be justified.
Confessing everything
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blessed, you must pay indemnity. If you have something stained in the past,
you must wash it away. But you cannot do so by your own power. You need
assistance. In order to get help from a lawyer, you have to confess the
whole situation, in detail, including whatever you have at the bottom of
your heart. If you do so, a lawyer will defend you standing in the position
of yourself. Otherwise, you cannot be saved, Likewise, I can become a lawyer
who intercedes for you. Therefore, even if you may not want to speak out,
you must confess to me every secret, even the things that nobody else knows.
Do you say you have many things inside that you don't like? I don't like
them any more than you do. Strictly speaking, my mission is not to deal
with this kind of matter. But I must accept this position in order to give
the Blessing. You are the stained one; however, you can be blessed only
when such a condition is made that your stains are erased and you become
clean. Otherwise, since you are totally in chaos, you are not qualified to
receive anything like the Blessing. Isn't that true? Blue-eyed Americans
or dark-skinned Africans — all people are the same. If they do not go
through such a process, I will not recognize them.
I am aware of many things — the spiritual world comes to me and
tells me to listen to them. Listening to them reveals troublesome things ,
all of them are about abuses of either money or the relationship between men
and women. I understand everything, I don't want to listen to those kinds
of things, but they want me to solve these problems by all means. So things
that were hidden in the darkness are now exposed in the sunlight. This means
that Satan's camp is being broken into pieces. Therefore, the standard of
departure for the new world can be established. In Japan as well, problems
between men and women are coming out little by little as a result of rumors
about the Blessing. If they make selfish promises, I know it. Even if they
do not want to be exposed, anyway, they have to confess to me. Those who
look at each other as more than just a brother and sister are in the same
position as Satan. You are never allowed to do this kind of thing. If you
have even a little of this tendency, you must cut it off.
Until now, I have taken responsibility and carried your burden so that
you could set conditions of indemnity for your Blessing, to build a true
family. Although I fulfilled this responsibility, if you violate Heavenly
Law, it is a dreadful thing that will burden tens of generations of your
descendants. If any of you who understand the heart of the Principle concerning
the fall decide to get married on your own anyway and have children, who
can take responsibility for you breaking the standard of the Principle? Even
God does not take this responsibility.
In the Old Testament, they killed those who committed the sin of fornication
and adultery by stoning them. Is there anything we can do for those who
are worse than that? Who pays the indemnity after all? You yourself
must, absolutely, Man lost the ability to have dominion because of the
fall. Therefore, no matter how much others give advice, you must decide
what is true and do it. Whatever the path others may go, you should be busy
going on your own path. You have no time to be distracted by what they are
chattering about beside you. In this way, you should always feel pressed
by the urgency of restoration work, You have no time to sleep at night. You
have no time to eat meals sitting in a chair. You should be people who have
such an intense heart of restoration,
Since God has been persevering until now, longing to reverse the history
of 6,000 years, you have no qualification to stand in front of God unless
you pay indemnity in the first seven-year period. How can you reduce the
history of 6,000 years into seven years and indemnify it, and how can you
inherit it heartistically? Do you think it's an easy job? Restoration is
a long, long course, which you cannot finish even if you do your best from
your youthful days. So you must study hard and do everything in your power
to accomplish your responsibility.
You cannot imagine how much indemnity I have paid to reach this point, I
have been so serious. Prison is not the problem, torture is not the problem,
being beheaded is not the problem. I have been working silently for many
years at the risk of my life, longing for the time to come when I could
clarify everything at once. My seriousness inspired God, and God could not
but sympathize with me. Therefore, even if I keep silent, mediums in the
world are beginning to work for my sake, They are mobilizing the spiritual
world for success in every corner of the world.
Our mass weddings
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let's think about the wedding ceremony. We have been dealing with the history
of indemnity. why do we hold mass weddings? Don't you want to know?
If the Blessing had taken place in the Garden of Eden, that would have
been the biggest event in the cosmos. In the case of Jesus, as well, he
should have had a wedding celebrated by the entire nation of Israel. we
have mass weddings in order to indemnify according to the Principle what
could not be achieved on the cosmic level in the Garden of Eden. Therefore,
at the time of the 430 Couples Blessing, the wedding was sensational news
around the world. It caused a controversy everywhere. Therefore, it was
the same as if we had held the wedding ceremony on the world level. God's
wedding ceremonies must be this way. If we let all the people of Seoul see
our Blessing, it is the same as if we invite tens of millions of people.
The wedding ceremony of the Unification Church has certain conditions.
Wedding ceremonies until now have been self-centered, but we must indemnify
this through public ceremonies that bring joy to God. Also, within our
wedding rites, each part of the ceremony is a specific indemnity condition
for the sake of restoration, This is necessary because of the Principle. The
Principle clearly explains that our Blessing has surpassed the standard of
bride and bridegroom which Jesus could not accomplish, and our Blessing eases
Heaven's resentment over the fall. Do you know one condition of indemnity
that I discovered? It is the indemnity donation. It is a condition to give
a donation that you earn by pouring out your sweat, and it is not given at
one time but over four years. You may wonder how I could determine such a
condition, My understanding must be a mystery to you.
If God gave the solution, it could not become an indemnity condition.
The history of 6,000 years has been prolonged because Adam did not know what he
was supposed to know, and what he was supposed to solve by himself. Therefore,
I had to think it out by myself, It is a cosmic and historical success that I
solved the issue of indemnity within my lifetime, set the standard of history,
and carried it out, Therefore, I am the victor, Saints who passed into the
spiritual world, and Jesus, Confucius and many others — all of them
came to admire me. Because of this, the spiritual world will become unified.
Hell, will also be liberated. Truly, this will all take place. If you
cannot believe it, go to the most famous medium in Japan and ask about
Reverend Moon; you, will clearly understand. The organization in the spiritual
world supporting us is connected to the earth, Accordingly, when one, two,
three nations come to stand up for God, the world will be restored on their
foundation, Having this kind of hope, we march forward.
Also, when you are blessed in marriage, you have the period of separation
for 40 days as an indemnity condition, You must do this as indemnity not on the
level of only Jesus' spiritual resurrection, but for the purpose of entering
into the sphere of resurrection in substantial life while still on the earth.
You must pass through a certain course of restoration before being able
to love each other in the position of husband and wife. In order to win the
victory for such a difficult path of indemnity, from now on you must never
think about having a selfish relationship with someone of the opposite sex, nor
should you arouse such thoughts or initiate such a conversation. The Blessing
always involves a certain indemnity. There is no question about it, concerning
indemnity, there is no room for clemency. Therefore, the Unification Church
is a fearful place. This is not a threat, but the conclusion of the Principle.
Within the realm of the Principle, there cannot be one iota of tolerance
for sin. God's plan cannot be fulfilled unless we overcome sin. And if we
overcome it, Satan cannot accuse us, Therefore, I would have the right, if I so
chose, to strike Satan by the same means that Satan used against goodness. If
I chose to apply the same strategy by which Stalin purged his country of
religion, and if I decided to curse one-third of the universe — well,
I have the qualifications to do so, but it is not our way. Nevertheless,
the key point is that each person is responsible for his own restoration
through indemnity. This is the Unification Church.
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